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Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Allah got our backs! They should never expose their secrets to a third person.
What really stroke my mind while reading is the verse in nagasaki al-Dhariyat: I created Jin and mankind but to worship Me. However, I much appreciate your feedback and I have learned from you that I need to make sure to be explicit inshaAllah and cover all grounds, including taking steps. For readers: please write in online programs you recommend in the comments section. Allah got our backs. Perhaps it may and perhaps it may not. What would you do if you have a long tiring day at work but you need to fulfill your husband's physical desire?.
Teacher — Khaled Bouchafaa is a highly qualified teacher and has been teaching Quran and tajweed for the last 22 years in various Islamic colleges and masjids. Will that reward be in the form of an amazing spouse and an amazing marriage? May Allah grant us all success and the ability to develop love and attachment with the Quran.
Hook up with allah - Hook up with Allah, Allah will hook you up - Does he have the right knowledge and iman to guide you and your young. Let us be of Allah's favored people — those who work to recite the Qur'an by day and night, work to memorize, understand, and live by it!
Sisters would voluntarily tell me I should change my dress style, personality and passion for activism in order not to scare them away. Since when was our purpose in life marriage? Nevertheless, with marriage being such a huge concern for our community, many face the temptation to change who they are and their core values for the sake of finding a spouse. We are talking about the Al Mujeeb, The Responder to Prayer. Those are amongst the Names of Allah! Allah gives and He answers! Every time we glance up and see someone we wish we could be with and then turn away, in that moment we can fervently ask Allah swt to bless us with a spouse who will be the sweetness of our eyes. How could Allah, The Responder, possibly not accept the supplication of His adamant worshipper who is painfully struggling to maintain his or her modesty and guard his or her chastity? Allahu Akbar God is the Greatest , this is Allah! Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him? Will that reward be in the form of an amazing spouse and an amazing marriage? Perhaps it may and perhaps it may not. Thus, we must know that if we hook up with Allah, we can trust that He will hook us up with whatever is best, whether it be an answer to exactly what we are asking for or something better than that for us. Allah got our backs! Who better to trust our future with than the One Who already knows it? Easier said than done? But what have we got to lose? But let us not forget that the One Who will facilitate the outcome should be on our minds, in our hearts and worshipped through our actions in more passionate, fervent ways than the time and effort we justifiably spend searching for our better halves. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. Of course Allah is listening and He will undoubtedly answer us. Never will Allah disappoint those with yaqeen certainty , tawakkul reliance and husn al-dhann good opinion of Him. She has been presented the Student of the Year award by former California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger and holds a second degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do. What really stroke my mind while reading is the verse in surat al-Dhariyat: I created Jin and mankind but to worship Me. However, we always forget the mission for which we mainly came to existence to engage in troubles searching for our destined provision. Even looking at this from a perspective not fully including intending to please Allah swt, the spouse I would like are the people that dress modestly and are active in the dawah, not the sisters dressing flashy and trying to court guys at every event. Consequently, its a win-win situation, because you get the better reward, the reward of Allah swt, and the reward of a spouse who is better. The Messenger of God was delivering a sermon. Verily, I love such and such a person, so love him! And then Allah places pleasure in the hearts of the people towards this person! By what you write it appears that anyone who turns to Allah with a pure heart on this matter will be rewarded with a suitable husband, i. Yet, there are many, many people all over the world who have indeed done this and have asked Allah for a suitable loving husband, someone who is the sweetness of their eyes, yet have received a tyrant in response. There are many people who have made this sincere supplication yet have received a husband who fails, who is violent, who is unfaithful, unloving and the bane of their existence. How is this a suitable reward for someone who supplicates sincerely to Allah? They just need to be patient, and have trust in Allah. Allah will provide even better for them in the akhirah. We are there for them. WHat I mean in that sometimes the presence of one praying woman is the thing needed to tip the scales in a very dark life. I only know that it happens. I know a man who will swear to you that the time his wife spent in supplication in the middle of the night is the only thing that saved him from drug addiction. Did she deserve him? Did he deserve her? But in the end I know that Allah swta will reward her. Perhaps, some time ago I might have agreed with the author, but nowadays I am just fed up with the construct of modesty and bashful behavior. A while back there was this awareness campaign for breast cancer on Facebook. Women were posting the colors of their bras. But the outcry from some people was just beyond horrible. I kept a record of it: I am tired of women being told to be modest, and bashful, and quiet and all that. Why does no one tell women to lead armies like Ayesha? Why are women not told to question authority like Hafsa? They were not just Mothers of the Faithful, they were the Warrior Queens of Islam. Why is that never mentioned? Tell the women to be assertive, to stand up for themselves, to demand justice and equality. An empowered woman is a thousand times more beautiful than a submissive one. Is not a woman empowered by being submissive to her Creator? Especially here where so much emphasis is placed on the physical, practicing Muslim women refuse to be judged soley on that basis. Ahlil Kitaab have already conformed to this secularist push for the watering down of Religion. Because these were also qualities of our Prophet saw. He was a gentle Prophet, but he was a Lion when the circumstances called for it. As his follwers, I hope that we can emulate that example… I agree with you completely. It was about revamping our relationship with Allah and seeking to change only to please Him instead of someone else just for the sake of getting married. Would not Allah listen to and accept your supplication to Him? How could Allah possibly not accept the supplication of His adamant worshipper who is painfully struggling to maintain his or her modesty and guard his or her chastity? How could He not when you are striving only for His Sake? May this be easy to remember always. Jazkum Allah Kul Khair Sister for your beautiful article! As a man, when I first started reading this article, I was able to relate to the situation you faced with your sisters trying to tell you how to get married. Sometimes people tell me that when Im ready to get married I need to shave the beard and change my ways. At times, the thought has crossed my mind that these people may be right when deep down I know its not true. After reading this article, I feel more energized to keep doing what Im doing and to try even better to get closer to Allah. It just makes perfect sense; do you really think that Allah will punish you by making it impossible for you to find a spouse because you are following his commands? Thank you for the reminder sister, Muhammad My humble thoughts inspired by this deep article It is the only way and best way…. Mashallah an amazing article. I loved reading it, it give me another perspective on a lot of things. I have benefited from this article a whole lot. We need to promote this article as much as possible. People need to read this amazing message that the author beautiful wrote. May allah swt reward you for it. My name is Melissa, and I am from Chicago. I read your article very in-depth and was wondering what it takes for a person raised in the Catholic faith to become Islamic. I believe in so many of the values you speak of, but wonder if it is even shameful for me to ask to join your faith. Your values are mine, and nothing in the West has ever made me believe that anything past Earthly life exists. I feel a void that needs an end. I would just like to know what it feels like to be born into a faith that has so much truth involved. Missiey- I just saw your post! Everyone is welcome to accept Islam! Most of my relatives are converts as well, many from Christianity. Thank you brother Jeremiah for posting the above information. Missey, please feel free to contact me personally as well. I live in CA but I can also help connect you with some good Muslims in Chicago who can hopefully help answer any questions you may have. Alhamdullah I am glad to see that you share my same perspective. Jazakallah Khair , Assalamualaikum wbt… good thought n reminder. Everybody already been set their soulmate by almight Allah. Whether sooner or later is only the matter of time. Put trust on Allah. Insya Allah this is will be part of the opportunity for us to learn more, gain knowledge, etc, before we move on to marriage life. Allah know what best for us. If we can get Allah love, nothing else matter n bothering us. DO come back to Allah. Ask for HIS Love, Ask for His forgiveness. Growing up as a desi girl, I always been told my others to dress more attractive and to present myself in a manner so I can find a perfect spouse. I realized that we get so involved in this materialistic world and trying to please others that we sometimes forget to go our one and only source in life Allah swt. JazakAllah Khair for such an amazing article! This was a lovely article. However, I have often asked myself this question, and I think it is very relevant. As muslims, do we believe that as long as we do dua, we will be granted a spouse? How does that make sense in the real world? If we want a job, do we just do dua, or do we apply for jobs, get the word out, make sure we look nice and groomed for the job interview, etc? Many many girls do not get married in the west because our parents believe that as long as we do dua to Allah, we will be granted a spouse. Dua brings us closer to God and supplements our efforts. Allah creates circumstances and everything else is up to us. If we do not make efforts to get married, then that is a choice that we make…. God gave us free will to do whatever we pleased. As long as our efforts to get married and find a spouse are not haram, then we should be actively pursuing those efforts. This article provides some nice sentiments. We should always do dua. But am I more likely to find a spouse than the girl who lives across the street, just because I read dua? Statistics will tell you that that is not the case — currently, unmarried muslim women far outnumber unmarried non-muslim women in Canada. The numbers are actually quite astounding. Amongst my non-muslim friends, almost all of them were married by age 35. In the meantime, our childbearing years slip away, because God has created women in such a way that starting at age 40 we stop producing estrogen and eventually stop ovulating. Dua is a means of worship and gaining nearness to Allah. It is NOT a fast food menu, where we order what we want and God delivers. I think there may have been a slight misunderstanding when reading this article. My point in the article was not to change yourself just to try to impress someone else- to focus on your relationship with Allah, to stay away from the haram and try our best to do good deeds, and inshaAllah Allah will answer our duaa because we are making a connection with Him instead of disconnecting so we can connect with someone else. I think the essence of the article is summed up below and maybe re-reading it would help clarify. But the point was about regardless of the outcome of a spouse or not, making our intention and actions one which make our connection with Allah stronger. Will that reward be in the form of an amazing spouse and an amazing marriage? But the best part is that Allah knows what is BEST for us and that His bounties are limitless. Thus, we must know that if we connect with Allah, we can trust that Allah will grant us whatever is best, whether it be an answer to exactly what we are asking for or something better. Allah has got our backs! Who better to trust our future with than the One who already knows it? Easier said than done? But what have you got to lose? The article is a bit misleading in that regard. However, the above paragraph suggests that young people should rely on prayer and the Quran only, and not other methods, to find someone. Allah SWT places a great of emphasis on the family as the cornerstone of Islamic life. Women are born with wombs to carry babies and breasts to feed them. It just has to be far more than that. I am sorry if I sound harsh because this was a nice article, but in the 21st century Muslim women need more than JUST the Quran and websites to get married!!!!!! I guess I just have to say that the way I wrote the article was not to give the impression that I think I gave you, and my apologies for the misunderstanding. I simply did not continue to that part at all and focused more on the spiritual aspect of trying to please Allah instead of constantly seeking to please others because many of us were pressured to do so. However, I much appreciate your feedback and I have learned from you that I need to make sure to be explicit inshaAllah and cover all grounds, including taking steps. And finally, with regards to the hadith, I mean, subhan Allah, I just wrote the benefit of the hadith as mentioned in the Fortress of the Muslim. Precious You have said more eloquently exactly how I feel than I could ever have. I met Jeff Lang a revert Prof of Maths who has written a few very good books like Struggling to Surrender; Even angels ask; Losing my religion. He advised me to be open with my good values and character to EVERYONE and THEn if a nonmuslim likes me, I should tell him that it is important for ME that the guy be a muslim and then invite him to Islam. We need articles here to help us learn how to introduce Islam to a potential spouse — being born into the religion, I am clueless how to do that. THAT is the need of the hour for girls like me and Precious. I can testify that personally. And watch the magic happen. This article really has given me a different kind of satisfaction inside my heart. As overall, everyone knows to rely on Allah, and I do too, but when it comes to doing istekharas and things not happening in the way you wanted does indeed make me down. And I start to wonder and questions things. I pray all the time mashAllah but I needed something that will make me stronger, and this article really helped. O, our Allah, please forgive us all! I was always upset something was always going wrong for me in general. I was an emotional wreck untill I started wearing the hijab and And praying salah. I have now found peace in my heart and have learnt to appreciate things i already have. My question to you all is the love I felt for my ex lover has still not gone completely I still pray to Allah swt if not my ex lover in this life pls grant me him in the next life. I will make my marriage work inshahallah just by praying to Allah swt I can see myself living with my husband a very happy life. Is this wrong of me to even ask for another man in the next life?? From reading this article it has answered some of my questions but I just want to confirm? Am sorry for going off the topic a little assalamu alaikkum, To sister: only allah knows who will be with us in jannah. Instead of worrying abt that part, if it didnt happen in dunya, maybe it wasnot meant to be and thats why you are now married to a different person and probably thats what is good for you. I suggest you pray to allah so that allah fills your hearts with love for each other. Forget ur past and anything that reminds it. Concentrate on how to be a good wife and insha allah, everything will turn out fine. May allah bless you with a happy life… Absolutely spot on advice! Its not always easy, but with complete hope and conviction in Allah, Allah will not disappoint. Once again, jazakallah khair sis for the lovely and inspiring advice.